Many of us have been with various friends during different parts of our lifetime. Everyone of us have an amount of love and affection towards our friends. But, this love is different for different people. It depends upon the respect we have for them and the closeness of their relationship with us. Many of us do the this common mistake. We don't reciprocate other's love adequately. Many friendships have been broken due to this silly act.
Some have this common attitude, of treating everyone as their friends. This is an extremely good attitude that brings people together as a closely knitted group and helps in working together. But, what these people don't realize is that there are people surrounding them who give them the extra care they need when its most needed. It hurts a lot when they don't react accordingly and treat them as "just equal" like others. There is no meaning now in showing extra care. So, for those of you who love to make many friends be cautious that you don't leave those who trust you a lot "heavy hearted".
It takes lots of effort to make a good friend and even more goes in maintaining them. If the effort is not equal among both the parties involved in the relationship, then the relation doesn't mean the same to both the people. One values it dearly and the other sees it as a mere liability. There are other kind of people, who are too possessive. Possessiveness is good to some extent, but see to it that it doesn't ruin the relationship. Be possessive only if the other person likes to be possessed. I wish my friends will take this article seriously and make a good world of faithful comrades.
