Everyone of us in our life through our school to college must have experienced or at least witnessed the sort of misunderstanding that exists among friends termed as "Cold War". When friends are in cold war, they don't face each other face to face, they don't talk with each other. But, the most amazing thing is that they don't attack each other explicitly and also deliberately. This sort of bitterness goes on and on between them unless either of the two friends breaks the ice and speaks out.
The common problem among friends is that they think that they don't do any mistakes and any problem that occurs in the relationship is purely due to the other person. Everyone is liable to err and every single person must know this fact. When the other person does some mistake, it is the beauty of friendship that one must notify it to the other person rather than rebuking him severely. Think for a minute why the other person is not speaking out to you. Don't always look for the other person to satisfy your desires. Take some pain in getting done the things the other person likes to enjoy.
True friendship is when both the persons know each others' strengths and weaknesses and try to help each other in overcoming their weakness. When someone stops communicating with the other just because of some minor misunderstanding, then its not at all termed "friendship". There is selfishness creeping in here. Friendship is that where there is no selfishness and sacrifice is the most valuable gift that one can give to one's friend. Finally, don't forget your friends for what they are and also learn to rate your friends according to the care that they show to you. Showing similar reaction to all your friends may not sound well all the times. Cheers to friendship......
