It's really painful when our friends or colleagues at business places shout at us for unnecessary reasons. Its mainly due to the fact that people who lose their temper feel that they are not being respected or their opinion is being flatly brushed aside. Among friends, one starts shouting at other because the other dint listen to his orders or did something he wanted. This often occurs when one of the friends is so dominating over others. Many think that showing a dominating character is a "virtue", but the truth is that it may land them into a land of troubles. Peers don't respect them and also their opinions and move with them for the sake of that association that they had with those short tempered people.
The general principle is that, try to respect the other person's needs and wishes and behave accordingly. True friendship lies in sacrificing at times our own wishes and trying to get the wishes of our friends' satisfied. We must be able to observe our friends' behaviour and be able to identify the way they adjust with us even though we are so rude at them and do something that is not desirable to them. When our friends are ready to bend their wishes for us, then it becomes a duty for us to reciprocate atleast some amount of this kind hearted behaviour if not fully.
Do not burst at your friends since because they say something against your opinion. Take time to analyze whats that so good in their view that it makes your's a little lower in grade. If you still feel your's is still better, then try to convince your friend politely by highlighting the inherent good qualitites of your idea. Even at work places, do not dominate or over power your team mates with your solutions. Ask your team members for their views and try to incorporate your proposals along with theirs. Be it friends or colleagues, respect to human stands tall amongst all vital characters for human beings.
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