Saturday, April 11, 2009

Kindly Listen

This is one of the best lessons that life has taught me.  Something everyone needs to follow in their lives.  It's the art of listening.  Here I am going to discuss what this simple listening can do to your friend.  When your friend talks to you about your worries we at times don't bother to listen, knowingly or unknowingly.  It really hurts your friend.  People generally say their problems to those whom they feel reliable, lovable and whom they feel they are at ease.  When he/she approaches with some sorrow and pours his/her worries it's like a slap on one's face when we refuse to listen.

Listening to problems has a great role to play in medicine too.  Doctors and nurse develop this quality which helps to cure their patients.  Many patients who are in a pitiful state with the disease ruining their life, the time the doctor spends listening to patients' worries cures them before hand.  When you listen you assure that you still love them, you want them to get better and you spend your most valuable asset, your time.  No gift can be more precious than the time you spend listening to someone.  Never shrug off and quit when someone wants you to listen, they say you with this hope that you will bring peace to them.  So, next time when you are wanted to listen be happy that you are going to make someone settle in tranquility.

2 comments:

Nirmal said...

going thro ur blog after long time.. BLogging is going to be very useful for u once u go abroad for studies. al the best man..

Chandran said...

@ nirmal
Thanks.

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